1. In vain, I feel my life is in a mess, I have been useless, what should I do?
I was really confused at that time, what is the useless? Just how old say oneself useless? I just want to ask, in your eyes, what level is useless?
Drinking and dancing at night is a waste? Smoking and playing CARDS is a big health care waste? Staying up late, being lazy and having three small barbecues a day is a waste. Snot is wiped on electric pole, the hair holds to a week not to wash, the sock that puts down compares loose change to return much, hide bedroom bed to see small p orn secretly everyday, was abandoned namely?
How easy is it for today's young people to get rid of it? So easy to give yourself the "death penalty", the definition? Do you know your mother? Do you know the math teacher? If waste so easy, it is really blind you eat so many years of rice.
I had failed in the college entrance examination, but I was not willing to repeat the examination. I was determined to create my own world. I was lost in the future. I had a stall in the park gate to sell children blowing bubbles, moving bricks in the construction site, to the company when the customer service, the future how all do not know, I did not feel useless!
Now, it seems that most of the things we face are ordinary things, we face ordinary problems caused by ordinary people and ordinary things. What you are experiencing now, although it may be painful for you now, is actually a small thing in your whole life. There's no need to feel useless.
2. Is it useless to be in his position without taking charge of his government?
You are the only person who has ever known you better. You are the only person who knows what you need right now. What is real waste?
You are a city white-collar, your salary and your standard of living differ too big, connect everyday have a meal to solve hard, you still do not think enterprising. -- this is a waste. You a student, your grades and your learning tasks are too different, even the minimum 60 points are not examination, you do not work hard. -- this is a waste. ...
The essence of waste is useless, you do not try to play your role in your position, that is waste. You don't have to deny me. If a person knows what he wants, and firmly do it, step by step to achieve what he needs now, it is not useless!
3 waste people is never for their own efforts
We continue to come back to this topic, you say you blow your nose on a telephone pole, the hair can hold out for a week not to wash, the sock that saves is more than small change still, hide bedroom bed to see p orn secretly everyday, be ruined? They don't prove you're useless, though; However, they can show that you are on a path to ruin.
Have you ever heard of the butterfly effect? Small changes in The Butterfly Effect can set off huge long-term chain reactions throughout The system. "A butterfly in the amazon rain forest of South America, flapping its wings occasionally, can cause a tornado in Texas two weeks later."
你有没有听说过——蝴蝶效应这个概念。蝴蝶效应（The Butterfly Effect）微小的变化能带动整个系统的长期的巨大的连锁反应。“一只南美洲亚马逊河流域热带雨林中的蝴蝶，偶尔扇动几下翅膀，可以在两周以后引起美国得克萨斯州的一场龙卷风。”
People do things are addictive, with the first time, there will be a second time, the third time... The first N times.
The first time you skipped class to go online, you were nervous and a little excited. With the first time, the second time your brother invited you to go, you do not hesitate so much. The third time, you won't hesitate at all. You'll be an old hand at the NTH time. Your score starts to slip at the rate the plane lands. Finally, you said you can not scrap it?
So, first of all, don't talk about it all the time. Define yourself in two or three seconds. Secondly, you need to play your current role well, and finish your current task well, so that you won't fail.
You can be an ordinary with thousands of pieces of small staff, every day to work overtime diligently to complete their own work. You can be a freelancer who likes adventure, likes traveling and doesn't like to work properly. Every day, you can go to different countries, enjoy different scenery, write different articles and earn the payment. You can be a small shop owner of malatang unkempt, get up early every day, busy making pot bottom put materials.
You live for yourself at this stage. No one is entitled to include yourself, it is easy to say you are useless. The person who is useless is the one who never works hard for what is needed at the present stage.
Finally, let's summarize:
1.Determine your current goals and needs. 2.Make plans to achieve your goals and meet your needs. 3.Stick to your plan.
Everyone has a role to play in the world, a stage to grow, and responsibilities to fulfill.
No matter what industry you are engaged in, what role you play, what stage you are in, whether the responsibility on your shoulder is big or small, as long as you are steadfast and abide by the bottom line of law and morality, even ordinary people can show extraordinary greatness.
Fail? It's just your negation of yourself and your useless affirmation of yourself right now. Knowledge is useless without progress, that is the real fail.